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Meltdown

“It feels like when you shake a can of a carbonated drink and it fizzes up… and all the fizziness is the meltdown slowly starting to get worse. Then, poof, something happens. Off goes the cap.”

Meltdown is a state of feeling overwhelmed, often to the point of “losing control”.

A bit about meltdown...

Many things can cause meltdowns, such as social demands, frustration, embarrassment, challenges with communication, emotional triggers, sensory build-up, demanding situations, or a combination of these.¹

 

Meltdowns might look like yelling, stomping your feet, or crying.

Man yelling in frustration while holding his head

This is how some autistic adults describe meltdown...

“It's very impactful because if I have a meltdown, people just become surprised because you know [I’m] calm, well-collected, and all of a sudden [I’m] starting to yell… It's just a feeling of you don't want to be in the situation, but you can't get out of it.”

What are the impacts of meltdowns?

After meltdowns, people often regret things they said or did. You might not clearly remember what happened. Following meltdowns, you might also have feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrassment about the situation. 

 

Some autistic adults find that they don’t experience meltdowns as much as they did when they were children. Others find that they still experience meltdowns often. Some people feel that as they have matured, their meltdowns have been replaced with shutdowns (which are described in a different section).

Watch a video explaining "Autistic Meltdown"...

Download and create your own "Meltdown" plan

We hope that working through this handout will help you understand your experience of burnout, make a coping plan, and feel more confident in advocating for yourself.

References

1. Phung, J., Penner, M., Pirlot, C., & Welch, C. (2021). What I Wish You Knew: Insights on Burnout, Inertia, Meltdown, and Shutdown From Autistic Youth. Frontiers in Psychology, 21https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2021.741421

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